Dating can be HARD. No one denies that fact. Everyone seems to know much of just how tricky dating can be that there are dating guides of some sort everywhere you look. These things sell like hot cakes, too. The problem is that most of these guides aren’t worth the online or offline space they take up for advertising results. Going by the commonest sense, do you really think that there can be so many Love Gurus and experts idling around that they are taking the pain to write books and offer advice?
Still, many people, desperately searching for a true partner, buy these guides. These are available for sale either online or in physical stores. And many believe them to work miraculously for them. However, these so-called dating advisors/authors should be held liable for moneyback policies for false advertising. Most of the time, these guides are only a mechanism for the authors to make passive income. Consequently, the books become a massive disappointment to those who are buying them.
The truth about the usefulness of dating guides
So, the point here is, are these guides really helpful in finding true love? Unfortunately, there is no clear answer. These can be helpful for people who always seem to run into bad luck while picking the wrong partners to date or are simply too shy to try dating directly. There can be some helpful advice in these books by experts on dating in this 21st century. The issue is that many of the so-called “gurus” are novices, as readers will notice almost from the book’s first page.
Many dating guides instruct men to follow specific rules to woo women. These instructions are either weird or creepy and can earn them a slap than a date. Unless men are in a specific part of town and around a particular type of woman, the chances of getting a woman or laid are pretty slim. Then again, these tips might help get a series of one-night stands with women looking for the same results for some. However, the chances of getting a serious relationship are almost non-existent.
These types of books with dating advice are almost equally available across platforms for women as well. And the result is almost always the same for them unless they’re entirely new to the dating game.
Wrap Up
The outcome of a relationship is not dependent on dating alone. However, dating lets you meet the type of person you really want to be with. If you need some help with dating, you probably have friends who will be more than happy to offer advice. Many times, that’s the best route to take. However, if you’re serious about the advice you need, do your research before ordering just any dating guide online that looks useful. Dig into the author’s background and determine their qualifications for handing out dating advice.
Also, remember that helpful advice doesn’t always have to come from someone with “Dr.” in front of their name. Often, someone with “real life” experience can be even more helpful because they’re real. The choice is yours in following the type of advice you want and what can help you the most.